they say no expectations, no disappointments. but if you look at it a different way, then you could have a different outcome. dont do things in life expecting a certain outcome. what ever happens, happens. things happen for a reason, whether you like it or not. just set goals, try to find what you want. work hard to reach it. it might not come right away, but if its something you really want, youll wait while doing your best. dont wait too long though, realize whats really worth your time. there could be better out there. just try it, and if it doesnt work, it isnt for you. move on. besides if you know you gave it your all, then at least you didnt quit.